I want to share an experience I had with a client. All information is general, and no identifying details are included. I recently worked with an individual who wanted more control over her money, but her family was currently managing it. The client is her own guardian, so technically she should have been allowed to…
When we work with adults who have disabilities, it’s easy to focus only on what’s happening on the surface. We see the behaviors, but we often don’t consider the underlying thoughts, feelings, and past experiences that might be driving them. As Mona Delahooke wrote in her book, Beyond Behaviors: Using Brain Science and Compassion to…
One major shift that I believe needs to happen in the field of ABA is when and how we reward behaviors. Too often, individuals—especially adults with disabilities—are asked to prove that they “deserve” autonomy, independence, or choice. In practice, this means many ABA professionals and staff require people to earn basic human rights before granting…
Have you heard the term “secondary losses”? As I was researching grief in individuals with disabilities, this term came up a lot. A “primary loss”, is the actual loss that occurred (e.g. your brother dying, your favorite roommate moving out) and it can be painful. “Secondary losses” are the losses that come because of the…
When we talk about death, many of us use softened language like “passed away,” “moved on,” or “in a better place.” This is natural—we want to be gentle. I used these phrases myself until I began researching how individuals with autism and intellectual disabilities understand grief and loss. What I found was this: using euphemisms…
Many professionals working with individuals with disabilities are familiar with discrimination training. This type of training helps individuals distinguish between different stimuli. For example, teaching someone to recognize letters in their name or identify animals involves discrimination training. This concept can also be applied to more complex areas, such as recognizing age groups (e.g., baby…
Losing someone is difficult, but it can be even harder for people with disabilities. This is because, the research shows that we do not often prepare people with intellectual disabilities to handle grief and loss. In fact, in worse case scenarios there is a tendency to assume that the grief/loss won’t impact them at all….
While there is debate about the actual prevalence, people with disabilities are more likely to be abused than their nondisabled peers. There are a few reasons why and this is by no means an exhaustive list: In the minor reading I have done, I have found abuse prevention programs that focus on using behavioral skills…
These were the amazing graduate students that I got to work with from Mahidol University in Thailand. In my last post I talked about doing some ACT exercises with the Thai staff at rural orphanage in Kanchanaburi. In this post I want to talk about buffers to trauma and how absolutely amazing the Thai people…